The evolution of the older adult is mirrored as a microcosm in the retirement community I visited today. Observing a highly competitive (and officiated, I might add!)water volleyball tournament between several retirement communities, I perched to chat with the pool activities supervisor, Bonnie. She was a virtual well of information on the nature of the physiology of aging. But one story she shared might truly represent the heart of Project Looking Glass.

Bonnie spoke of three ladies–the Mermaids–pointing them out as their silver hair glistened in the 90-degree-plus heat of a mid-summer day. Poised, they sat properly, good posture, graceful, dancer-like physiques, amazing and beautiful. She told me the story of how these ladies, all over the age of 90, participate in a synchronized swimming league at this community. Not only do they don their identical sleek black bathing suits, they apply their make-up with skill and pride and learn complicated physical and mental swim/dance moves by working hard, practicing rigorously and then compete and perform for hundreds every year.

I asked her how the Mermaids were able to memorize the numerous steps and strokes and perform in front of friends, family and general observers with such conviction and courage. Her reply, “they help each other.” Bonnie said some of the ladies remember every move, while others occasionally falter. But as one may perceive another may not remember or is struggling, she will catch her eye or communicate the next progression and all becomes well again. Bonnie also said she taught the Mermaids if they don’t remember a move or they stumble, “DON’T LET THE AUDIENCE KNOW!” “What they don’t know, they will never pick up on if you always wear your game face.”